From Advice to Respect
There’s something I’ve noticed about relationships: people generally don’t like being told what to do.
Even if I know the right thing for someone... even if I have solid reasons and well-intended advice... that doesn’t mean the other person will listen or be open to hearing it.
We have to earn the right to speak into someone’s life. And how we do that matters just as much as what we say.
We need to lead with respect instead of jumping in with advice. That means slowing down, truly listening, and honoring the other person by asking thoughtful questions rather than giving quick answers. It means understanding their personality and learning to speak their language.
With summer in full swing, now is a great time for parents to deepen their relationships with their children. Take a few minutes to listen to the latest episode of our Relationshifts podcast, where we talk about creating meaningful experiences with our kids. It’s a fun look at how parents can connect and strengthen their influence with their children.
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Important relationships deserve our time, energy, and presence. When we become great listeners and question-askers (instead of advice givers), we earn trust and deepen respect.
When we demonstrate respect in our significant relationships, we will make a difference.
Larry
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Check out our latest episode of the RelationShifts Podcast:
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