Your Rights, Your Choice
We live in a culture where everyone is concerned with their “rights” and getting what they feel they deserve. While ensuring our personal rights and freedoms is a good thing, many times we forget the important truth that with rights come responsibilities — and often those responsibilities are to others. One of the most important responsibilities we have to those around us is to create an environment of trust and acceptance in our homes as well as at work. Relationships that are successful are rooted in an environment that yields safety and growth.
Are we listening to those who do not agree with our opinion or preferences? Do we see feedback as a gift, even when it is not positive? Is respect a foundation of our interactions with those around us? Are we quick to forgive and slow to judge others? Do we give second chances and allow others to learn from their failures? Do we care about the person more than the issue?
Creating an impactful and effective relationship begins with the type of environment that we are fostering. Focusing only on what we deserve will yield frustration, defensiveness and anger. Intentionally focusing on our responsibilities to those around us will foster a culture of trust and respect, and build a long-lasting and meaningful legacy.
The good news is that you can start to change your personal and professional environment today. There is no magic formula or equation to use. There is only your choice. If you selfishly focus only on your rights, you will be lonely, insecure, and maybe even miserable.
When we choose to create an environment built on respect and kindness toward others, we most certainly will make a difference.
Larry
Check out our latest episode on the Crossing the Line Podcast:
Living Your Legacy, with Steve Shaw
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