When We Assume…..
There’s a saying about what happens when we make assumptions (if you know, you know). I’ve found it to be especially true when it comes to our relationships.
Making assumptions usually leads to miscommunication and misunderstanding. We assume we know what the other person is thinking, what they meant, or why they said what they did… and more often than not, we’re wrong.
It’s easy to fall into this trap. Assumptions require less effort than asking clarifying questions or having deeper conversations to truly understand the issue at hand. But taking the shortcut often leads to hurt, frustration, and damaged relationships with the people we care about most.
Instead of assuming, we need to practice using our EQ (Emotional Intelligence) in our relationships. The ability to slow down, listen, ask questions, and empathize is key to building connection and trust. And the good news? Anyone can grow their EQ skills.
Take a few minutes to check out our latest RelationShifts podcast episode, where we talk about how emotional intelligence can transform the way we communicate:
Listen on Apple | Listen on Spotify | Watch on YouTube
When we shift from making assumptions to asking questions, we will make a difference.
— Larry
Check out our latest episode of the RelationShifts Podcast:
Listen on Apple Podcast | Listen on Spotify | Watch on YouTube
