On Point for Summer
There’s something I’ve noticed about relationships: people generally don’t like being told what to do.
Even if I know the right thing for someone... even if I have solid reasons and well-intended advice... that doesn’t mean the other person will listen—or even be open to hearing it.
The truth is, we have to earn the right to speak into someone’s life. And how we do that matters just as much as what we say.
Instead of jumping to offer advice, we need to lead with respect. That means slowing down, truly listening, and honoring the other person by asking thoughtful questions rather than giving quick answers. It means understanding their personality and learning to speak their language.
With summer in full swing, now is a great time for parents to deepen their relationships with their children. Take a few minutes to listen to our latest Relationshifts podcast, where we talk about creating meaningful experiences with our kids—and how those moments can strengthen connection and influence.
Important relationships deserve our time, energy, and presence. When we become great listeners and question-askers instead of advice givers, we earn trust—and deepen respect.
When we demonstrate respect in our significant relationships, we will make a difference.
Larry
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