How Personalities Protect Themselves: Leading Lions
It’s March MADness… and Playing Good Defense Is Key
March is here. While many are filling out brackets, we’re filling out a different kind of relational bracket.
In our newest episode, “It’s March Madness and Playing Good Defense Is Key,” we kick off a month-long focus on how different personalities “play defense” in relationships. Just like in basketball, defense can win games—but when overused, it can also lead to fouls. This episode spotlights the Leading Lion and how strong, decisive traits, when overplayed, can unintentionally damage important relationships.
For Lions to thrive in their connections and engagements, here are three important shifts to remember:
1. Shift from Winning Points to Winning the Relationship
Lions love to win. But in relationships, scoring points in an argument often means losing connection. The “win” may prove you’re right, but it can weaken emotional trust. Strong leaders understand that unity is more valuable than victory.
2. Shift from Being Blunt to Being Direct
Bluntness can bruise. Directness builds clarity. There’s a difference between forceful delivery and purposeful communication. When Lions communicate with strength and consideration, their words carry impact without causing injury.
3. Shift from Deciding Alone to Asking Questions
Lions are wired to move quickly and make decisions. But healthy leadership invites others into the process. Asking questions doesn’t weaken authority—it strengthens alignment. Curiosity creates buy-in and shared solutions.
Take a moment to check out this new Relationshifts episode.
March Madness is a great time to evaluate your defensive habits. If you’re a Lion, take time to reflect on how you respond to those around you. If you live or work with a Lion, share these defensive shifts with them.
When we shift from domination to connection, we will make a difference.
—Larry
